Showing posts with label Blogs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Blogs. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 29, 2025

Every dead person is the same

 


WHAT MAY OR MAY NOT BE TRUE

 

I write poetry. I don’t necessarily write what I think is truth—or untruth for that matter. Thinking, for me, is neither true nor false. Really, isn’t it? Well, my thoughts can go a long distance without a label as to true or false.  

What’s real and what’s not real is a question I do think about. By that I mean real/unreal in a physical sense, not metaphysical (I’m dodging the argument that philosophy’s vocabulary deals with reality). Anyway, I’m sitting at my desk writing on my computer. That’s real, or at least I think it is.

 

Sometimes it’s not easy to separate physical from metaphysical lines in poetry. The murky, out-of-focus terrain between physical and metaphysical is one of the reasons I read poetry. Those lines throw a wrench into the brainworks. 

 

In writing poems, I want to make assertions that you can’t prove or disprove. For example, the last line of my poem “Lunch in a Belgian Chateau,” published in Last Stanza Poetry journal is “Every dead person is the same.” I can’t prove every dead person’s the same, but you can’t disprove it. I have a dear friend who would challenge me on this, but religious faith in an afterlife doesn’t rate as proof. 

Monday, February 21, 2022

Website updated

 

ME AND THE BEAST (GODADDY)

 

I've revised my website , one reason I've been in a bad mood lately. I have a hate-hate relationship with Godaddy, which is the software I use. This past week I've offended myself with words I've spoken. At least only my computer heard me.

 

Godaddy doesn't turn up on "best" or "easy" lists of website builders, and for good reason. It's complicated and can lose work with no explanation. To their credit, it is possible to get an actual person on the phone when you need help (unlike Amazon which I've yet to make human contact, despite a number of attempts).

 

If it's so bad, why don't I change to another website builder? Excruciating thought. After the many hours I've labored to get the Godaddy site up? Lose all that time? Reconfigure all that information on another platform? I'm feeling a bit sick.

 

I have used Wix to build a website for my children's books, and it is easier to learn, though I've only done the bare minimum to get that site up. It has splashier options for composition but I don't sense the depth there that Godaddy has.

 

Anyway, take a look at the updates. Please let me know if you're flagged with "page not found," which has happened to me.

 

(left to rt.) Godaddy, my website, and Me


Sunday, February 6, 2022

My blog featured on Columbia II Writers

 

 

READING AND BOOKS

 

When I was growing up, I didn't figure out that I couldn't get smarter by myself. But in those long-ago days, it was more important to be good at sports than be smart. Today it seems that winning a video game award is more important. My ideas about the role of reading in a writer's life is featured on the Columbia II writers blog this week.

 

Actually, it's the second blog I wrote. Had to shelve/trash the first one after I gave it to Doug for a once-over. His reaction was an eye-opener. He was livid about the contents. I couldn't say what I had said. We had a fiery few minutes --and I didn't even think the article was controversial. But that's because I'm numb-headed and think that other people think like I do.

 

Anyway, I discovered it is controversial to say things like "people who've been disadvantaged in the past should be cut some slack and given advantages when it comes to access to education."

 

Secondly, I should have known I was asking for a pie in the face when I protested that journals have no business asking me (as a writer making a submission) about my age, ethnic background, and sexual orientation. Even if it's in the name of "diversity." Isn't it an invasion of my privacy?

 

That first/rejected blog is in my "archive" file, too explosive for the light of day. I don't want to get crucified for taking a political position unpopular with the twitter crowd.

 

Anyway, I hope you'll click on the link and take a look at my blog. Thanks!


Is there anything more important than learning to read?

 

 

Monday, September 13, 2021

magical realism


WRITING MAGIC

 

Did realism in novels get too gritty for readers? Too horrific? Is that a reason for the rise of fantasy, sci-fi, and magical realism? Fantasy and sci-fi create other worlds where suspense and violence are a step removed from the reader. Magical realism, on the other hand, takes place in a real world where magic is as common as clouds.  

 

How do you make the incredible normal? Inevitably, the writer must blur the line between reality and fantasy. Tropes that have been used to accomplish this are telepathy, dead persons as characters, psychological disorder, paranormal phenomena, and a washy way with time.

 

See more on magical realism on my blog, featured on Columbia II Writers Workshop's website this week.


Monday, November 9, 2020

Words & Wine and "Small Boxes"

  

I'll be in the Zoom Room 

Next Tuesday 

 

If you’re a reader or a writer

I hope you’ll join me

Tuesday, Nov. 17

6:00 – 7:00 PM 

when I'll give a talk 

at the next meeting of

 

Words & Wine

Via Zoom

 

I have a lot to say about

“Small Boxes”

 

Register with Zoom to see, listen, and participate.


Chris Maw came up with Words & Wine to promote local authors. It features a different writer the third Tuesday of each month. She also supports local artists and small businesses with newsletters. You can keep up with what’s going on in the Columbia area by emailing Chris at chrismaw.2015@gmail.com

 

I hope you'll be on my computer screen with me next Tuesday.

 


Sunday, October 4, 2020

Cola II Guest Blogger

 

IF YOU WRITE TO PLEASE MORE THAN YOURSELF

 

My blog is featured this week (Oct. 4-10) by the Columbia II Writers Workshop. Workshops have personalities. And writers may need to visit several before finding the one that works for them. The worst kind of workshop is one in which a renowned author is present. It degenerates into a competition for the attention for that one person. With that said, workshops have been a great help to me in improving my writing. My blog is about good and bad criticisms—and no criticism, which is the worst of all. Take a look –

http://columbiawritersworkshop.blogspot.com/search/label/Bonnie%20Stanard

 

Wednesday, August 29, 2018

WriteOn SC


 
Another chance at the mic
RADIO TALK SHOW
Last Saturday I was a guest on the radio talk show WriteOn SC along with sci-fi author Rex Hurst. Host Kasie Whitener led our discussion about research and writing. It’s a topic especially germane to historical fiction.

RESEARCH 
I talked about how I research background information. The main resource I use is writings contemporaneous with the time of my manuscript, in particular diaries, biographies, and autobiographies. You can find titles from indexes of other books on the period.

When it comes to digging for the answer to a specific question (did toothbrushes exist in 1857?) I start with Wikipedia. A Google search is often helpful. And you can find online photos and art of your period with clues to fashion, architecture, and geography.

AUTHORS WITH NO AUDIENCE?
Though you wouldn’t know it from the paucity of literary events in South Carolina, the state has an enthusiastic community of writers. However, aside from college and religious bookstores, there’s only one bookstore in the city of Columbia — Barnes and Noble. The city of Lexington has one, Books-a-Million. West Columbia has Ed’s Editions, which specializes in collectible books.

That is to say, SC authors in the Columbia area with books to sell won’t find a friendly face at a local bookstore. If you’re already successful, i.e., a name-brand author, our libraries occasionally sponsor guest appearances. They’ve also organized book clubs, but I don’t know of any author who’s been invited to appear at one.

A NEW PLACE WHERE AUTHORS MEET READERS
Kasie Whitener’s radio talk show WriteOn SC airs at 9:00 AM Saturday mornings on 100.7 FM The Point. It’s an opportunity for the community to meet and get to know local authors. Kasie is on the lookout for SC authors and publishers to participate in the programs. If you’re interested in being considered for a guest appearance, click on her blog.

SUPPORT for WRITERS
Better still, if you’re willing to support the show as a donor, go to the Patreon website.

To inquire about placing an ad on her show, get in touch with her through her blog.


Monday, March 19, 2018

Blog Post Columbia II



Writing for Columbia II Writers Workshop

My article “Autobiographical Influences” is featured on the Columbia II writers blog this week. Maybe one of the reasons we write is to record not only what we see about us but to discover the past and its influence on the present. The South has yet to overcome some of the mistakes of our history. This has provided inspiration for writers from William Faulkner to Alice Walker.

Writing an autobiography is not something that interests me. However, my latest novel, WhatMissing Means, is evidence that I have been writing about my background, even if the story isn’t about me.

To read my previously published blogs, click here. Columbia II is a chapter of the South Carolina Writers Association.

Sunday, March 19, 2017

word list, Cola II





WORDS

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“Sham Words” is the title of the Columbia II Writers’ Workshop blog this week. I wrote this article about words I dislike. If words had smells, these would be on my stinky list. You’ll find many of them in this sentence:
It took forever, but then many very beautiful words suddenly began to empower me with a really good vocabulary.
Check out the Columbia II blog to see if you’ve identified the stinkies.


Wednesday, January 18, 2017

guest blog - Columbia II Writers

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PROMOTION PAY-OFF

In “Now That My Book Is Published,” (featured this week on the Columbia II Writers Workshop blog), I write about the time I’ve put in marketing my books. I’ve had book signings, attended festivals, bought ads, and joined Facebook. Has this effort paid off? That depends on whether the pay-off is only counted in number of sales. I’ve met other writers, become more professional, and kept myself in the marketplace. There’s no certainty that I’ll increase sales by continuing to promote my books, but there is a certainty that I won’t if I don’t.

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

Cover Design


FORTHCOMING NOVEL  

Thank you to the number of people who responded to the four proposals for the cover for my upcoming novel "Dust on the Bible." With help from Stanard Design Partners, I've chosen the design with a photo of a girl standing in light streaming from a window.

Because some of you mentioned that you prefer a color cover to black and white, we've added color to the background and the text.


Since this novel is about a young girl growing up and trying to understand her father's absence and her mother's volatile moods, it seems appropriate to have an image representing her on the cover. 

I'm in the process of proofing the lay-out, which is to say, we're coming down the home stretch. I'm already eager to have a copy in my hands. Should be no more than a couple of weeks.  

ON AMAZON
This Sunday (September 13) my comments will appear on the Columbia II Writers Workshop blog. Amazon is a tsunami that's changing the landscape for writers. It is marketing via Kindle a subscription service to readers similar to what Netflix offers movie buffs and Spotify offers listeners of music. These services are great opportunities for consumers. Never before have books been so cheap and available (ditto for movies and music). But what does it mean to writers and artists? I chew on this in my blog.

 

Friday, August 22, 2014

Environment


THE EARTH IS FINITE

Guest Blog

The following is taken from a Stanard family email exchange, one initiated when my husband Doug cited news regarding global warming.* Our three sons invariably have strong and differing opinions, many of them at odds with their father. We can’t solve the world’s problems, but that doesn’t stop us from having opinions.

Global warming is one of those issues that can heat up a conversation. Everybody has an opinion about the causes as well as whether it exists. Maybe some of the confusion arises because scientists don't know the consequences of our increasing demands on the earth's resources.

It has an impact on the environmentthe question is to what extent? And where is the tipping point? Some people think we'll never reach the tipping point. But they may be wrong. Not much to gain from being right—a lot to lose if they’re wrong.

Some of us point to the huge environmental strides we've made—based largely on increased regulations and awareness—and then at the same time, use this as an argument to do whatever we want. Isn't this contradictory?

UNDERLYING ISSUE

The underlying issue isn't global warming. That is only one indicator of a larger issue—consumption. What drives increased consumption? Population growth. We must—at some point—control our population growth. In 1940 the global population was a bit over two billion. It just passed seven billion.**

Population curves is something we learned about in high school biology classes. A species' population grows slowly at first, then exponentially faster, until it hits a moment when it is balanced with it's habitat—there's enough food to support the number of animals. But instead of halting at that point, the population—fueled by a healthy, fully fed peak population—has it's biggest growth year, shooting past the level the habitat can sustain.

What happens then? All those hungry babies and parents—starving—strip the habitat clean of it's resources in a desperate attempt to survive, desiccating the habitat. There's a huge die-off of the population and the species reverts back to the beginning of the cycle (or goes extinct).

SUSTAINED GROWTH SO FAR

We have thus far been able to avoid this fate due to our amazing ability to grow our habitat—both through literal expansion, but even more so due to technological advancements. But in the end, there's no denying it—the earth is finite. That means we must, despite all our technological advancements, eventually stop our population growth if we are to avoid the fate shared by so many unthinking species.

That's our choice—do we continue on without thinking or do we modify our behavior? If we continue to grow endlessly then eventually we will have a "correction." This may not mean we'll go extinct, but let's just say it will be … unpleasant. Or we could think ahead and avoid this painful outcome.

The rate of global population growth has started to slow (it's still growing, but slower), and awareness is rising, so there’s reason to be hopeful.


Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Book 'Em NC

WritePersona To Visit Book 'Em Blog

I'm scheduled to appear as a guest blogger Monday (July 21) on the Book 'Em NC site. Authors who will be at the 2015 conference in February were invited to provide blogs about their books. Mine is scheduled to appear for two days at http://www.bookemnc.blogspot.com. I hope you'll take a look.

Book 'Em North Carolina is an annual writers conference held in Lumberton. Seventy-five authors are allowed space to sell their books throughout the day while speakers provide continuous programs in the nearby auditorium. What's really nice is that authors are charged no booth fee and visitors are allowed in the door free. The event is funded by local businesses. Those of us selling books agree to donate a percentage to the conference, which in turn donates to literacy programs in the state. It's a win-win situation. 

I attended the 2013 conference. Bob Mayer and Haywood Smith were featured authors, and both of them were entertaining as well as informative. Mayer was especially good, and he will be featured at the South Carolina Writers Conference at Myrtle Beach in October.

Saturday, May 31, 2014

N-word


N-WORD ANXIETY

Len Lawson’s blog on the n-word
http://columbiawritersworkshop.blogspot.com 
(Scroll down to “Writers Archive” and click on “Len Lawson.”)

has meant a great deal to me, since I’m guilty of using it in my antebellum novels. I tried alternatives. A substitute merely transformed my historical fiction into a 21st century politically correct piece of writing. Aside from that, words like African, slave, and bondsman don’t convey the anguish, degradation, and trauma of nigger. What was slavery if it wasn’t anguish, degradation, and trauma?

“Know me, know my history” is a quote from somewhere. We know our history from writers of history, which gives such writers authority. There’s also a responsibility to discover and convey truths derived from evidence. When facts reveal something that hurts, it's easier to suppress the story than to expose it. 

Nigger exposes an historical truth by its very existence. That truth hurts, and we want distance. Not only blacks but whites want to get away from it. We don't want to repeat history.

I've cringed as I typed the word nigger in what I’ve written. Len’s blog helps me make peace with myself. Even if you're not a writer, take a look at Len's blog. 


Monday, December 30, 2013

Marion Aldridge


A VISIT WITH A BLOG

Last night I was up until 2:00 AM reading the blog I just discovered by a fellow writer whose discipline is much better than mine when it comes to writing. I was reading Marion Aldridge’s blog (http://marionaldridge.wordpress.com), not only because it was engrossing but it provided an escape from the sadness of seeing the departure of family members who had come for Christmas.

Marion seems to have been gifted with what many of us writers work at—a distinct and engaging voice. After a night of “visiting” with him (and I felt as if we were having a visit), I’ve decided that a prerequisite to writing with voice is the assurance that you have something to say that will be of interest to a wider audience than your circle of friends.

But that’s only part of the picture. A voice such as Marion has comes from a confidence that he can say or do just about anything and be accepted if not appreciated by people in general. Or maybe it’s that he’s not concerned about being rejected. Where does that confidence come from? I don’t have it. Is that a gift we’re born with? I’ll have to ask Marion.

There are several obvious reason why Marion is an engaging journalist. 1) He’s enthusiastic about life in general; 2) he’s curious about and investigates our world; 3) he has a religious grounding that is neither judgmental nor overweening and; 4) has a way with words that is mannerly and thoughtful. 

Marion has helped me cope with the “empty nest” that follows a house full of guests. My sons and their families are back in their respective homes (Cincinnati; Rome, Georgia; and London, England). Another Christmas has come and gone. And I’m coping with the gone part.